Winter is coming with its Christmas’ vibe… and we are very excited about it! In our opinion winter in Canada is magical (well at least when the snow is still white instead of being covered with pollution) ❄️.
The problem with winter here is that it last for a longgg timeee. So many months of cold and grey(ish) weather can easily affects us in a negative way and make us fall in a poor self-care never ending circle. Which, you can guess, is hard on the feeling of being sensual.
If you want to live your life in the most happiest way possible, it is really important to take good care of your body and mind. In order to do so, you have to put yourself as a priority. Otherwise you let all the stress from your everyday routine take control of your well being. This is when anxiety, fatigue, fear (and all that jazz) show the tip of their nose.
So why is sensuality so important?
It helps to feel in harmony with our body, which increases our self-confidence. And since sensuality is connected to all of our senses, it also develops our creativity, imagination and intuition.
We know sensuality can be a scary word, as a lot of people think it is only related to sexuality. But it is not! Sensuality is the ability to feel in touch with all of our senses.
Here are 5 ways to feel sensual again in winter time:
Movement
We put this on top of our list because this is VERY important, not only for sensuality but also for your health. So write it down somewhere or take a mental note:
You have to incorporate movements in your routine!
Being “stuck inside", having to work from home and spending most of our days sitting on a chair or a sofa is really bad for our body. It makes our muscles week, creates tightness in our back and neck, and decreases our level of energy.
if you motivate yourself to move your body often during the day, your productivity and mood will skyrocket. And honestly it is an easy habit to create. For example:
Do some yoga in the morning and gentle stretching during the day.
Take a break from work and dance like nobody's watching.
Or just move your body slowly and the way you want it, without making it pretty.
Moving your body will make you feel more connected to it and at peace with yourself.
Self-Care
Taking care of this body of yours is also primordial. We like to imaging our body is its own little person that needs attention, the same way you will give it to a loved one, a pet or a plant. It needs love and care in order to grow strong and beautiful. Here is how you can give it some lovin’:
Put some make up on and do your hair if it makes you feel good.
Make yourself a hot bath or get massage to relax.
Take the time to moisturize every inches of your skin and feel the lotion deeply nourishing it.
Food
Yes, believe us when we say food as the power to develop your sensuality. There is a common saying french people like to say after a delicious meal:
“It was as good as an orgasm!”
It does not mean we had one while eating, but it means the feeling of peace and joy was the same an orgasm can give you. Quality food is all about flavours. Forget about salt and sugar, we are talking about explosion of aromas that can increase your level of happiness and peace :)
Learn to cook healthy and tasty meals.
Go buy yourself some delicious french pastries.
Order your favourite food and take the time to enjoy each flavours.
Sexuality
Even if sensuality is not only about sex, it is an important part of it. In this part we want to talk about self-sexuality and forget about potential partners for a minute.
You have to know your body by heart in order to feel fully at peace with it. You cannot be afraid to touch and look at it, and discover what parts of your body are the most sensitive.
They are so many ways to play with and learn about your body, and by yourself. You can start by lighting up some candles, listen to musics that help you relax or turn you on… it will put you in the mood. Once you have set up everything your way, you can try different things, such as:
Breathing exercises and energy movements (this is a bit more spiritual) to help you reconnect with your body.
Touch EVERY PARTS of your body, apply different types of pressure or speed. This will help you understand where and how you like to be touched.
Be curious about toys (yes even if you have a partner, it can actually be a cool add on to your sex life). You can find a variety of toys: static or with vibrations; different sizes, shapes, colours and texture.
And of course boudoir!
Last but definitely not least on today’s list is boudoir photography. This is the perfect experience to discover and play with your sensuality during a time that is for you and you only! No need to wear a disguise for your shoot, you are the one choosing the vibes you want to create and will bring the outfits and props that make you feel your most sensual-self.
Of course there are so many other ways to embrace your sensuality, you just have to experience and be curious.