We all want to be Happy. To not have any regrets. To feel at peace with ourselves, feel accomplished and fulfilled. It sounds so simple, doesn't it? So why do we struggle to actually reach it?
Here is a little test for you, answer honestly and from the heart!
Have you ever compared yourself to others, or wish for what you don't have?
Have you ever felt like you were too old to change, or that you've invested yourself in a lifestyle or career that doesn't feel right for you but the thought of quitting it sounds unrealistic because you have been at it for so long?
Have you ever felt like you were just being a spoiled brat because you match the pretty checkboxes of what success is supposed to be on paper, so you really shouldn't complain?
If any of these resonates with you, it is time for you to read the following:
We have this lame habit of creating obstacles on our own paths. Sometimes unconsciously because we are conditioned to. Sometimes out of fear and doubts. But here is the truth:
We already have all the tools we need to create our own happiness. You, us. Everyone. And it is just a matter of choosing them and learning how to use them.
Now read that again.
Your age doesn't matter. The time invested in your current path doesn't matter either.
We have met women in their 50's who have drastically changed their lives. We have had clients who opened their dream businesses because they decided to silence their inner fear. We have a friend who is 75 and decided his age will not be a limit to his dreams.
You know what they all say? "I should have done this sooner".
The minute you stop ignoring this craving for change you have deep down in your heart in order to be happier, magic happens.
To make it work, you're gonna have to learn to listen, face your limiting beliefs and put yourself first.
What if the first step is to stop doubting yourself?
We all set expectations for ourselves on how we should be and act on a mental but also physical level. Again, due to conditioning or standards we are facing on a daily basis.
You must have this vision on how you think people see you, and maybe you even create a certain pressure around it. And if you feel like you are not matching those expectations, you end up doubting your behaviour and choices, focus on your flaws and disregard your qualities. In conclusion: you're hitting the brakes on following your life aspirations until you "fix this".
But have you ever noticed that people seem to see you differently than you see yourself? We sure have! And it totally makes sense!
It is impossible to see ourselves from an outside perspective. To see how we talk and interact with others or how we use our body language… For example, some people can see you determined, others can see you aggressive. Maybe you look bored, or maybe you just feel particularly calm.
It can be so confusing that we end up wishing to be different and our inner voice wakes up, full of:
"I wish I were smarter!",
"I wish I could be like this person!",
"I wish my life were different!".
However, nothing is set in stone.
You are not a constant package with the same features forever and you cannot please everyone. So how about doing what feels right for YOU?
You are your most powerful asset. And you will definitely feel the happiest when you feel like your true-self and this requires making decisions despite what others might think. After all, regrets are our worst enemy, especially when we refuse to learn from them.
So how do you become the person you desire to be? How do you get in harmony with your mind but also your body? How do you gain that confidence to live the life you deserve?
Allow yourself to ask for help
There is no magical recipe to improve yourself overnight but there are concrete ways to achieve it.
Changing is a long process that can be difficult and frustrating, especially if you do it by yourself. We believe humankind is stronger when we work together, so there is no shame to ask for help when you need it.
With the proper expertise, tools, exercises and a strong willpower to work on yourself, you can make those changes happen faster than you think. But all of this cannot take place unless YOU ARE READY to welcome it!
You are Limitless
You are unique and we want to show you that you can do anything, that life is an ocean of opportunities and realize you do not have to follow only one path.
We want to help you tap into your potential to create your own future and follow your desires.
This is why we created The Limitless Program. We are combining mindset consulting and boudoir photography to help you heal from the inside out by giving you the tools to elevate yourself and build the self-confidence you can apply to any area of your life.
It’s about making micro changes that result in macro differences, so you can finally become a stronger and more fulfilled version of yourself.
Through Limitless, you are saying YES to taking your life by the reins and steering yourself into the person you’ve always wanted to be.
Are you ready to live your life to the fullest?
